New routines: balancing work, the kids’ school and fun!
14 de May, 2020
If remote work is a challenge, reconciling it with distance learning for children undoubtedly seems like an impossible mission.
In a context of distancing, finding a balance that guarantees good professional performance and fulfilling the school obligations of the youngest is no easy task, so we’ve put together some tips that promise to help you organize family activities in a way that meets everyone’s needs!
Before we delve into the infallible tips we have for you, there’s one essential starting point that we mustn’t forget. When it comes to professional success and doing well at school, the most important thing is that the atmosphere at home is calm, positive and confident!
The family wants to be united and, for that, all defeatism and negativity must be kept out. Done? Now on to the tips:
- Accepting the new normal
It’s important for the kids to understand that although we’re in an exceptional situation, that doesn’t mean that the same applies to their school obligations. The first step is to define a timetable for the younger ones, which includes class time, time to do homework and all the breaks in the day. The timetable should include an hour to check what the child has done during the day and answer any questions that may have arisen. In addition, all the previous logistics (waking up, baths, breakfasts, etc.) should be maintained. - Define objectives and priorities
The timetable should be part of a weekly plan. In order for everyone to maintain some independence throughout the day, it’s a good idea for the family to be aware of everyone’s tasks. Not only will this help organize time, but it will also make children more collaborative, as they know that something is expected of their schoolwork. It is essential that the goals set are realistic and organized by priority. In addition, children will feel more motivated if there is an alternation between easy and more difficult tasks. - Being a strategist
Think of this whole dynamic as a game of strategy. Parents know their children better than anyone, so they’re sure to know when things are most hectic at home. Try to coordinate your schedule with the kids’. This way, you’ll avoid being interrupted, as the younger ones will be busy too. During breaks and times of high spirits, choose to spend time as a family and do activities together. The truth is that togetherness, fun and quality time are more important than ever, after all, despite taking on this new “teacher” role, they are still your children and need to feel that there is time to play and be with their parents outside of school! - “Every monkey on his branch”
We’re sure you’re familiar with this expression and, during this period, you should be guided by it! It’s essential that everyone has their own space and that there are defined areas for leisure and work. Children should feel that they have a space that replaces the classroom. Home is the new school, so all distractions should be avoided in this space. On the table, only what is necessary to complete all the school tasks! - Keeping in touch with the school
We know that, no matter how good a tutor you are, a teacher’s work can hardly be replaced, especially in such a short space of time. So it’s very important that you keep in touch with the teachers and that the children don’t feel that they are no longer part of their learning. The teacher will help you see if all the work has been done, if your child hasn’t missed any lessons and which subjects they need to brush up on! Don’t forget, this is a team effort! - Dealing with frustration
No matter how many plans you make and how much organization you do, there’s always going to be one thing or another that doesn’t go according to plan, or a day when the children interrupt you more than they should. Feeling angry or frustrated is normal, but you need to know how to deal with these feelings in the best possible way. Avoid solving problems when you’re angry with your children and stand your ground when talking to them about school matters. We know it’s not easy, but at the end of the day it will allow the family balance not to break down.
Got all the tips? Now all you have to do is go from theory to practice. Good luck!